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5 Basic Signs You're Dealing With A Nothing Ass Nigga

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5 Basic Signs You're Dealing With A Nothing Ass Nigga

Nothing Ass Niggas

EVERYONE!!!!!


Anyone who’s a part of these 5 signs, sorry to say, you’re a nothing ass nigga or you were a nothing ass nigga and you’ve decided to redeem some points and be on your best behavior. Sad to say, I too, once contracted the nothing ass nigga syndrome that was going around for a while, so yea, females are able to be a nothing ass nigga as well!
Now these signs are pretty simple so only an idiot wouldn’t be able to spot them. And again, it’s okay, because I’ve been that idiot before. That’s why I’m here to help and explain my idiot mistakes and show how you guys and girls can confirm the nothing ass nigga trait, cause BAAAAAAAABY…its a struggle!


SIGN #1-They don’t like titles?! Who the hell don’t like titles?! Titles are what make the relationship feel so secure. Anybody can say they’re down for you and are only for you, but the ones who can stand up and say “hey this is my boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, husband,” the ones that are proud to show you off the way you want and adore you to eternity, those are my heroes. Not everyone can make that commitment to a person. So when a person says they don’t like titles, don’t think in the back of your head that you can change they ass and everything is going to work out fine, you run the other direction and get the hell out of there. Avoid that heartbreak people!



SIGN #2- They just plain old selfish! Now understanding everyone is selfish and it’s totally understandable because I’ve had some selfish days and I still do to this day, but if your woman or man is selfish with their time, that’s a red flag to add to the nothing ass nigga list! They aren’t prioritizing you. They make you think that you’re being too needy when in reality, all you probably wanted were some cuddles and a booty rub or some cuddles and a nice massage, ANYTHING! If they’re selfish with their time mentally and physically, you’ll only get more upset with yourself because you’re ass should’ve left a lot sooner.

SIGN #3- They’re Misleading AF! Let me tell you guys something, because I’ve done this to a couple of people and I am so sorry in advance for not being upfront, but if your man or woman is telling you one thing, but doing the other, IT’S TIME TO GO! Actions speak so much louder than words and I don’t care if you’re the president, if you tell me one thing and do something else, I’m going to think you are the biggest send off on earth. Unfortunately, I’ve been a suspect to misleading a lot of people, but I always apologized…like years later when we catch up or something.


SIGN #4- They Don’t Prioritize You for Shit If your man or woman doesn’t prioritize you, baby let that person go. People make time for who and what they want to make time for. You can beat it into their heads that you like them and that you really want to see them, but if they’re not taking the hint and they are still doing them, it’s time to do you. I used to talk to this guy and as much as I voiced out that I wanted to see him and as much as I made an effort to see him, he would not budge. He would tell me he wanted to see me so badly, but his ass wasn’t trying at all. Eventually, we stopped talking. He would pop in when he wanted, but it was only to socialize over the phone. I’m more of a hands on person, so that didn’t work for me. I’ve done it to people myself where I just didn’t make time for them and they seemed really into me. I just didn’t have the energy for it and I didn’t have an excuse. I just wound up telling him that I didn’t want to speak to him anymore because I was too busy, which was a damn lie. Again, I’ve been a nothing ass nigga myself, so I know the feeling and I know how to make someone feel like I did. So trust me, if they're not trying to make the time to see you, drop their ass and keep it pushing!


Sign #5- They're Emotionally Unstable There are some guys and girls who've been through the heart break and they can't take another one. But there are some that use emotions to their advantage. I was watching Two Can Play That Game, one of my all-time favorite movies, and one of the girls turned her nigga into a master piece. I mean she got that nigga head right, fit tight, dental game strong, the nigga was saucing, but when his ass looked in the mirror and saw how fine he was, (and bobby is not that damn fine for one), he started cutting up. No more attention was being shown, he was acting an ass, and then he hit her with the 'I've had my heart broken and I'm just not ready' line. He was so into her at first until he saw himself in a new light and started acting out of pocket. Another movie that reminds me of these emotional rollercoaster is Boomerang, where Eddie Murphy is the player of the century, but meets his match with the new woman in charge who plays his heart like the biggest sucker on earth. Look them up, watch them. Moral of the story is, men and women can play the victim involving their emotions and make you feel as though their extremely hurt, but in reality, they don't want to commit. It's a little hard to let these people go and that's because it seems so genuine and you say to yourself it's fine I can be patient. But you'll get tired of those wack lines eventually when you find yourself thinking you're in a relationship but he or she is still doing what they want to do. Let it go!


Everyone can relate to either being a nothing ass nigga, or dealing with a nothing ass nigga. A question that I often ask myself is, "when will I be tired of this shit?"  I ask others that question too when they’re dealing with nothing ass niggas and my answer is, you’ll know when you’re tired. When you’re tired of hearing excuses or you don’t feel the same emotions to situations anymore, you’re tired. When you’re tired of being told one thing and another thing just happened, you’ll know when to stop dealing with a nothing ass nigga. Now for my fellow nothing ass niggas who are still being nothing ass niggas to this day, when will it end? Aren’t you tired of playing around, juggling different people, trying to make excuses? I’m tired of even talking about it right now because it just tired me out. I don't want to juggle different people around and play with their emotions anymore because It’s too much hard work when  I can just be simple and either be with one person at a time or no one at all. And again, I have been on that nothing ass nigga boat and I have done the exact same thing.   So on the count of three, let’s run like hell if we meet anyone with these five signs and I’m pretty sure that there are more but for now, these are the strict basics, okay?! One… Two… Three!